Why are there so many broken marriages – divorces or separations? What is a true marriage of love?
We may blame other things or reason for broken marriage, but it is always the result of incomplete love marriage, yeah, it is always a lack of love.
A broken marriage is always painful to one or the other and can affect the life of one or the other, even children if children had been born. Therefore, before one tie a knot, one should make one’s mind to love forever and never break a marriage. For that, one needs to know what really a true love marriage is, then be careful and choose the best and the most one wants among millions of people on earth.
Most of us, if not all, believe in a notion that marriage which resulted after relationship or friendship is love marriage. But if we count on such marriage, there are so many stories that do not have a happy ending, which ends up in divorce, separation or for the worst, committed homicide or suicide.
There are many acclaim love marriage but ends up cheating, hurting and divorce or separation. This shows that such marriage is not a love marriage but a short term marriage of like and desire, because love does not cheat, hurt or divorce. Such marriage is just marriage between someone who like and desire one another but not loved.
It is not wrong to marry someone one like and desire, but it is wrong to marry for a short time or to divorce. If one marries whom one like and desire one should also give love or else never marries. Like and desire does not last for marriage but love does.
Marriage is not a small issue, and if it is broken it can spoiled the life of one or the other, even children. Therefore, one should love or continue to love whom one married.
There is always love in a true love marriage or else it would not be called love marriage. Therefore, we are now certain that when there is love in marriage it is called love marriage no matter how one married – arranged marriage, marriage after relationship or friendship or sudden marriage.
If a marriage is of love, it always and will always last till the end, a life time. And, in love marriage, there are no discordance, lies, cheats, adulteries, unforgiving but harmony, faithfulness, care, tender and forgiveness because love is such things.
If there is harmony, faithfulness, care, tender and forgiveness, will there be any divorce or separation? No, not at all. Therefore, we are certain that love marriage consists of love, and it can never be removed because love is the heart of love marriage or else it is not love marriage.
Marriage does not happen only once in the church or on the day one tie the knots but it happen everyday until there is a divorce, separation or until one or the other dies. The day one tie the knot is just the beginning, or the first step of marriage. Likewise, love marriage begins when there is love in marriage and ends if there is no more love. Therefore, any marriage that does not consist of love or that ends up in divorce or separation cannot be called love marriage as love marriage last a life time.
Whatever we may call that ends a marriage; it is nothing more than a lack of love in marriage. It is this lack of love that brought pains in every aspect of life, not only in a married life.
With love everything will resume in its place, and there is no place for anything that we blame for the cause of divorce, separation or all bad things, nor there will be divorce, separation, etc. Therefore, love is necessary to make love marriage alive, and to be a master in love, we all need to know what really love is and what’s not or what mistaken love is. And this things I have written and posted on this blog.